FROM LOVE NOT FOR LOVE.

When you no longer chase love,

 you become love. 

When you stop proving your worth, it rises on its own.

There’s nothing to earn. 

There’s nothing to prove. 

The soul doesn’t bargain, 

it simply remembers.

MEETING, PARTING, 

AND THEN MEETNG 

AGAIN.

This is the true essence of love. Love is not just about being together; it is a deep, soulful connection that transcends time and circumstances. 

When two people meet for the first time, it is natural to feel excitement and anticipation, but excessive enthusiasm is not necessary. 

True love is rooted in patience and understanding.

Maintaining composure and maturity can deepen the bond, making it stronger and more meaningful. 

Often, people get carried away by emotions when they fall in love, but genuine love is built on spiritual connection and unwavering trust.

On the other hand, when separation occurs, it can indeed be painful, but it does not mean one should completely break down, lose hope, or be overcome with fear and anxiety. 

The true test of love lies in enduring hardships. 

If love is based solely on external attraction or fleeting emotions or just lust as sex,  the relationship will fade over time. 

However, if it originates from the depths of the soul, no distance or circumstance can diminish it. 

True love never truly ends; instead, it matures and grows stronger with time.

You stop chasing love, and instead become love. 

A love that is pure and real always finds its way back. If two souls are meant to be together, the universe conspires to reunite them. 

No matter how many twists and turns life presents or how challenging the circumstances become, if love is genuine, reunion is inevitable. 

Therefore, the true power of love lies in patience, deep understanding, and unwavering faith, no matter what obstacles arise.

All other mind attachments are genuinely human and included, but they are not rooted in love without conditions. 

Mutual Convenience, comfortably going through the materialistic motions, overtly transactional; monetary, sexual gratification, avoidance of loneliness, share the bills or bed, are all very human needs. 

When these mind attached reasons are mutually accepted, a greed on and consensually aligned, these traits are more than ok to base a relationship on.  

And most unconsciously human couples settle for three metaphoric meals a day with a stranger.

It suits their needs. 

It satisfies their practicalities. 

It alleviates having to actually return to themselves any deeper than superficial. 

And that is also more than ok. 

Limited. 

Limiting and narrow and the basis of the vast majority of so called “happy” transactional existences. 

Routine, repetitive, superficially passive, all mind consuming and negotiated on unspoken roles and walking on shallow people pleasing shells to keep the so called “peace”. 

People pleasing, perfectionism, pre meditated, procrastination, Averice, lust, chaos, crisis to crisis, unresolved anger, addictions, over use of stimulants or depressants, self medicated, close minded and cloistered, lacking a shared somatic sensuality. 

Once these attached conditions descend, the relating falls into a line of least resistance; Overtly intellectual and stuck entirely up in The head, going through the mechanical motions and essentially lacking in one significant ingredient? 

Love. 

Without attached conditions. 

 Love. 

Unconditional. 

Love. 

Full freedom to be and full moment to moment commitment to one. 

From love not for love. 

Enough is enough. 

Relax, NOTHING is under control in this one bare moment. 

Give it all up and simply surrender. 

To what? 

Surrender to this one bare moment. 

No attached thought. 

No thinking you know. 

No assumptions. 

No manipulation. 

No insecure over sharing. 

No nursing drunken hangovers. 

Simply be? 

Human kind. 

Human being. 

Human consciousness, unwavering. 

The grounded foundation of every human, once we get out of our own way, the changeless depths on which all surface change plays out. 

One coin two sides. 

Yin. And Yang. 

Up. And down. 

In. And out. 

Light. And dark. 

The total HUMAN fullness of one infinite paradox. 

ABSOLUTELY Heart connected; grounded, listening, receptive, expansive, limit less, discerning, joy full, grace full, purpose full, leading from the wide open inspiring heart, do no harm and take no shit. 

not LIMITED AND LIMITING, routine regulated ruts of puerile, people pleasing, insipid mind attachments. But that is what most people settle for and dogmatically, limiting, label “all for love…”

Choose your own adventure. 

Moment to moment. 

Life is not a dress rehearsal. 

Heart connected not mind attached.